tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post699994230936885050..comments2023-09-22T10:47:37.191-07:00Comments on Journey To Reinvention...: To Heal or Not to Heal...Charihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-41203986739455756782008-08-26T21:26:00.000-07:002008-08-26T21:26:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16707087253474424455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-14104304395671100752008-08-18T11:01:00.000-07:002008-08-18T11:01:00.000-07:00wow. i don't know how i stumbled across your blog,...wow. i don't know how i stumbled across your blog, but i'm so glad i did. i'm dealing with the same issue right now. i'm trying so hard to NOT let my past interfere with my present situation. it's hard....HisDaughter83https://www.blogger.com/profile/09622478717974394374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-1894775503460762562008-08-06T09:08:00.000-07:002008-08-06T09:08:00.000-07:00:) Thank Shelia, I will keep that in mind.:) Thank Shelia, I will keep that in mind.Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-16397723110994087712008-08-05T22:19:00.000-07:002008-08-05T22:19:00.000-07:00The end of a relationship is like mourning someone...The end of a relationship is like mourning someone's death in a sense. You're used to the person being a part of your life but for whatever reason things don't work out and you break up. You're going to go through an onset of various emotions--allow yourself to feel them but just don't wallow in them.<BR/><BR/>You probably wasn't too nice but just being a genuine good person. Just because that person didn't appreciate your kindness, don't allow it to stop you from being you. Yes be more cautious but still be you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-12915954969731768442008-08-04T15:18:00.000-07:002008-08-04T15:18:00.000-07:00Awww, thanks dj. :)And yeah all people do lie.Awww, thanks dj. :)<BR/><BR/>And yeah all people do lie.Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-43669386330100009902008-08-04T14:58:00.000-07:002008-08-04T14:58:00.000-07:00"All guys lie and cheat no matter how much I impro..."All guys lie and cheat no matter how much I improve on myself, they will still lie and cheat (which I still believe to some extent, sad I know)."<BR/><BR/>Not true (well aside from the fact that all PEOPLE lie at some time.<BR/><BR/>There are faithful people out there, I am sure God will lead some lucky man to you soon!DJ Black Adamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15258897246879725176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-75926871728098556162008-08-04T10:17:00.000-07:002008-08-04T10:17:00.000-07:00Don you hush!! LOL crazy self.But yeah, that's lif...Don you hush!! LOL crazy self.<BR/>But yeah, that's life can only choose to look at it as a positive and not a negative.<BR/><BR/>And Tex thanks for stopping by. Don't think I would want to hear Him speak to me directly, maybe through another person...cause if He did, it would scare the MESS out of me!Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-77853640989188799672008-08-03T20:02:00.000-07:002008-08-03T20:02:00.000-07:00that place of healing....some times i just pray an...that place of healing....some times i just pray and pray for people and myself and i know he hears me and i know that he is going to get me through it but sometimes i just want to hear his voice...maybe that will scare me more than help me but when you are down you always want to hear see or feel something that makes you chipper up you know...sorry if i rambledarychtexashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05013030893976403295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-12156645632311744172008-08-03T19:35:00.000-07:002008-08-03T19:35:00.000-07:00It's all about the STATS I see. Definitely need st...It's all about the STATS I see. Definitely need starter material and not bench warmer. LOL.<BR/><BR/>Seriously I enjoyed this read. It seems like I could have easily written it sometime last year when I had to go through those painful breakup emotions to reach a place of healing. It takes awhile and alot of 'second guessing' but, as you wrote, soon the healing begins and we get the chance to experience love and heartbreak all over again.<BR/><BR/>Isn't that THE life. LOL.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-42393854493510542562008-08-02T13:09:00.000-07:002008-08-02T13:09:00.000-07:00I agree. Relationships are a 24/7 gig. And it ta...I agree. Relationships are a 24/7 gig. And it takes BOTH parties involved to put in that overtime... or else something essential suffers.<BR/><BR/>You have the right 'tude. Keep steppin' your you head up, your heart open, & your eyes on the real Prize.<BR/><BR/>One.Moanerplicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02750801733829859144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-32276094133104827482008-08-02T09:09:00.000-07:002008-08-02T09:09:00.000-07:00never resort to throaT RIPPPINGnever resort to throaT RIPPPINGAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-10429373175996676112008-08-01T11:08:00.000-07:002008-08-01T11:08:00.000-07:00No prob Crunch.Yes, Ms. Diva and I am ready to spr...No prob Crunch.<BR/><BR/>Yes, Ms. Diva and I am ready to spread my wings...tonight! lol<BR/><BR/>No prob Jtub. People don't make it because they don't want to. Bottom line. Relationships are WORK. It's hard to deal with yourself on the daily, what makes people think it is going to be easy to deal with someone else too? Just crazy.<BR/><BR/>Looking forward to the post sir!Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-10171617632392114932008-08-01T10:03:00.000-07:002008-08-01T10:03:00.000-07:00thanx for this post mysi just got through a big br...thanx for this post mys<BR/><BR/>i just got through a big break up myself<BR/><BR/>im going to post something on how to choose the right partner soon <BR/><BR/>i just dont know why it is so hard for people to stay together in this day and age<BR/><BR/>you can have all the ingrediants and still not make a good meal i guess<BR/><BR/>its something that we really have to work outJames Tubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04192686802895547676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-89438944120877336932008-08-01T09:07:00.000-07:002008-08-01T09:07:00.000-07:00Getting past the pain and anger is so very hard. ...Getting past the pain and anger is so very hard. I had a hard time of that when I separated from my husband several years ago. Once I let go of all that anger I never felt freer.<BR/><BR/>It may sound wierd but one day I was thinking, "I am tired of all this anger and pain. Just let it go!" and once I did that, OH MY GOODNESS how freeing that was.Diva's Thoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16177643214210147206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-16204635217141656962008-07-31T19:43:00.000-07:002008-07-31T19:43:00.000-07:00Thank you.... I never looked at it that way. I re...Thank you.... I never looked at it that way. I really needed to hear this cause I was having a moment myself.(refer to the blog)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-58732947603141340562008-07-31T17:55:00.000-07:002008-07-31T17:55:00.000-07:00AWW! Thank you SO much!(hugging back lol)AWW! Thank you SO much!<BR/><BR/>(hugging back lol)Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148087840882038446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20440916.post-78105172479659555522008-07-31T17:51:00.000-07:002008-07-31T17:51:00.000-07:00i love your attitude You are a true example of how...i love your attitude You are a true example of how to really live as a christian. I just don't get the bitterness that COULD be there. <BR/><BR/>((hugs))Still Patricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15354178083853153422noreply@blogger.com